The book, "Recovering From Losses in Life" by H. Norman Wright, is a comforting and supporting book that helps ease the pain of loss while you are in the midst of it. The feeling of a permanent loss is like: "It hurts so much so that I feel hollow inside of me", "I feel like a half-man, I can't function as normal", "I feel loneliness and isolation without the person I lost", "I have a void in my life", "I feel insecure that anyone may suddenly leave me", "I feel helpless and lifeless", "It feels like I have shut down myself, and detached from others", "The fear is paralysing". When there is a loss, there is a grieving or mourning process undergoing, grief is absolutely necessary and normal.